{"id":59,"date":"2001-06-21T05:00:00","date_gmt":"2001-06-21T09:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.timcurran.com\/blog\/?p=59"},"modified":"2001-06-21T05:00:00","modified_gmt":"2001-06-21T09:00:00","slug":"whats-the-point-of-being-fuck-buddies-anyway","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/timcurran.com\/blog\/2001\/06\/21\/whats-the-point-of-being-fuck-buddies-anyway\/","title":{"rendered":"What&#8217;s the Point of Being Fuck Buddies, Anyway?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After the PBS showing of <i>Scout&#8217;s Honor<\/i> was over, I got a call from Beauyn, who watched it with friends in Rehoboth Beach. I didn&#8217;t mention I was with Raymond, for which Raymond later <i>reamed<\/i> me. I&#8217;m a little perturbed by that, because it seems to me that the whole <i>point<\/i> of being fuck buddies is that we&#8217;re not supposed to have <i>claims<\/i> on each other. And even if we <i>were<\/i> boyfriends, my relationship with Beauyn is just friendship, no sex involved, so Raymond&#8217;s patent jealousy is totally misplaced.<\/p>\n<p>Well, not totally. He does have a point about me failing to acknowledge him and his importance in my life. But he&#8217;s so high maintenance and difficult to satisfy, it&#8217;s hard to know what  <i>would<\/i> satisfy him.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After the PBS showing of Scout&#8217;s Honor was over, I got a call from Beauyn, who watched it with friends in Rehoboth Beach. I didn&#8217;t mention I was with Raymond, for which Raymond later reamed me. I&#8217;m a little perturbed by that, because it seems to me that the whole point of being fuck buddies is that we&#8217;re not supposed to have claims on each other. And even if we were boyfriends, my relationship with Beauyn is just friendship, no sex involved, so Raymond&#8217;s patent jealousy is totally misplaced. Well, not totally. He does have a point about me failing to acknowledge him and his importance in my life. But he&#8217;s so high maintenance and difficult to satisfy, it&#8217;s hard to know what would satisfy him.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":274,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-59","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-2001-2002"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":false,"thumbnail":false,"medium":false,"medium_large":false,"large":false,"1536x1536":false,"2048x2048":false},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"Tim Curran","author_link":"https:\/\/timcurran.com\/blog\/author\/timcurran-admin\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"After the PBS showing of Scout&#8217;s Honor was over, I got a call from Beauyn, who watched it with friends in Rehoboth Beach. I didn&#8217;t mention I was with Raymond, for which Raymond later reamed me. I&#8217;m a little perturbed by that, because it seems to me that the whole point of being fuck buddies&hellip;","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pNBEQ-X","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/timcurran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/timcurran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/timcurran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timcurran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/274"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timcurran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=59"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/timcurran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/timcurran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=59"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timcurran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=59"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timcurran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=59"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}