{"id":119,"date":"2001-06-13T05:00:00","date_gmt":"2001-06-13T09:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.timcurran.com\/blog\/?p=119"},"modified":"2001-06-13T05:00:00","modified_gmt":"2001-06-13T09:00:00","slug":"men-are-dogs-mostly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/timcurran.com\/blog\/2001\/06\/13\/men-are-dogs-mostly\/","title":{"rendered":"Men Are Dogs (Mostly)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Looks like I am one for three with new guys in the last week. In a previous entry, I mentioned meeting New York Times reporter Chris Marquis, with whom I hit it off and had much in common. I gave him my number (but didn&#8217;t get his &#8212; he didn&#8217;t have a card). But I haven&#8217;t heard from him yet.<\/p>\n<p>On Saturday night, I went to a Pride Party with Raymond, where I met another pretty hot guy, Eric, who also grew up in the Bay Area. Again, we hit it off. Again, I provided my number. I even asked him, for some reason, if he was really going to call me, and he acted like, &#8220;Of course!&#8221; But I saw him on Pennsylvania Ave. at the Pride Festival the next day, and he was very distant. Gave me his cheek to kiss, even though we made out a little the previous night. And he hasn&#8217;t called. Nor will he, I don&#8217;t suppose.<\/p>\n<p>But on the other hand, on Friday night, I ran into an old friend, although I didn&#8217;t know it. A year ago, I met an <i>extremely<\/i> hot guy at the Eagle. A 26-year-old Costa Rican college boy with a brick-shithouse body, who is very into guys my age. We made out, but that was it. Traded e-mail info, (his name&#8217;s Henry Soto) and we&#8217;ve been corresponding occassionally the whole year. <\/p>\n<p>Which brings me to Friday: I see this unfamiliar hot Latino guy at the Eagle. I make a remark complimenting his revealing tank top and we start talking. His name, he says, is Henry; he&#8217;s from Delaware. Well, actually, from Costa Rica &#8212; he&#8217;s just visiting Delaware. The little light comes on over my head, and I say, &#8220;Is your name Henry Soto?&#8221; He gets a look like he&#8217;s seen a ghost or something, and asks, &#8220;How did you know that?&#8221; &#8220;Because we&#8217;ve been corresponding for a year,&#8221; I laugh. &#8220;I&#8217;m Tim Curran.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So we giggle about that for a while, then he introduces me to his friends (same guys he was with a year ago). Then we go out onto the back deck and make out heavily for a while, just the two of us, then in a group grope. Eventually, it gets a little too heavy, and the barback shuts us down. I ask Henry to come home with me, but he has to drive his friends back to Annapolis, and eventually Henry literally <i>begs<\/i> me to come with them to Annapolis. But it doesn&#8217;t seem too wise to me to depend entirely on him to get home, so I decline. <\/p>\n<p>But I e-mail him that night, and after a few back-and-forths, Henry asks if he can stay at my place for a couple of days. I agree, but I didn&#8217;t hear from him again until today, when he asked if he can stay Thursday and Friday nights. Whoopee! Of course, I guess it could still be a disaster, but I&#8217;m betting it&#8217;ll be a lot of fun. Stay tuned.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Looks like I am one for three with new guys in the last week. In a previous entry, I mentioned meeting New York Times reporter Chris Marquis, with whom I hit it off and had much in common. I gave him my number (but didn&#8217;t get his &#8212; he didn&#8217;t have a card). But I haven&#8217;t heard from him yet. On Saturday night, I went to a Pride Party with Raymond, where I met another pretty hot guy, Eric, who also grew up in the Bay Area. Again, we hit it off. Again, I provided my number. I even asked him, for some reason, if he was really going to call me, and he acted like, &#8220;Of course!&#8221; But I saw him on Pennsylvania Ave. at the Pride Festival the next day, and he was very distant. Gave me his cheek to kiss, even though we made out a little the previous night. And he hasn&#8217;t called. Nor will he, I don&#8217;t suppose. But on the other hand, on Friday night, I ran into an old friend, although I didn&#8217;t know it. A year ago, I met an extremely hot guy at the Eagle. A 26-year-old Costa Rican college boy with a brick-shithouse body, who is very into guys my age. We made out, but that was it. Traded e-mail info, (his name&#8217;s Henry Soto) and we&#8217;ve been corresponding occassionally the whole year. Which brings me to Friday: I see this unfamiliar hot Latino guy at the Eagle. I make a remark complimenting his revealing tank top and we start talking. His name, he says, is Henry; he&#8217;s from Delaware. Well, actually, from Costa Rica &#8212; he&#8217;s just visiting Delaware. The little light comes on over my head, and I say, &#8220;Is your name Henry Soto?&#8221; He gets a look&#8230; <\/p>\n<p><a class=\"readmore\" href=\"https:\/\/timcurran.com\/blog\/2001\/06\/13\/men-are-dogs-mostly\/\">Continue Reading<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":274,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-119","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-2001-2002"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":false,"thumbnail":false,"medium":false,"medium_large":false,"large":false,"1536x1536":false,"2048x2048":false},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"Tim Curran","author_link":"https:\/\/timcurran.com\/blog\/author\/timcurran-admin\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Looks like I am one for three with new guys in the last week. 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