Will Raymond Let Me Top?

After more than a year of joking about it, I finally told Raymond today that I thought I would never top him unless we just set a date and did it. Amazingly, he said, “Where did you get the idea I would let you be the one.” Amazing, considering he’s been cracking jokes about losing his cherry since I met him, and asking when I would.

But obviously, it’s one of those approach-avoidance things you learn about in Psych 101. Fun to talk about until I called him on it. But I’m going to keep pressing, ’cause I actually want to do it, and I know he would love it, too.